Parents

I feel that I have a connection with Toby, aka jack, because his relationship is that his mom is the one that's taking care of him, the "enforcer", and his dad isn't the best father figure, and wants him in his life but doesn't know how to take care of him. This leads him to leave with his mom, and the father continues to follow.  I have this relationship with my parents because my mom is the one who went to the school meetings, and taught me what was right and wrong, and my dad usually nagged and antagonized me then expected me to not be mad.  But I think in both cases, the dad's wanted to do right but didn't know how, so it had a negative impact.